About Unit 3: The Bold and the Bashful
The Bold and the Bashful
The
content of this unit reminded me of a time I was considered shy and
introverted. I also particularly remember being misattributed of
having an aloof personality
by many of my classmates in middle school and high school. However, later I
understood this was simply because I did not share most interests or hobbies
with them; therefore, while it might sound a bit condescending, I
just did not make any efforts to be on their good side, or seek for their
friendship as I found it pointless. Nonetheless, I did get to build great
friendships with a few kindred souls along
my formative years with whom, to this date, I feel comfortable and content
around and can talk about pretty much everything. So, what I learned about my
personal experience is that there is nothing wrong with being shy or
introverted, as long as it does not lead us to develop a physical or emotional handicap related
to one’s self-esteem, confidence, or mental health, all of which could easily
contribute in leading us to neglect our emotional and social needs.
In addition to the topic, there seems to be a prevalent
idea that loneliness is a feeling that is more often felt by those who are shy
or introverted and that bold or extroverted people would rarely experience it,
so on this topic I found an interesting video I would link down below. The
video explains that loneliness can in fact, affect anyone regardless of their
personality because it is something deep-rooted in our biology. Seriously, go
check it out, it is pretty interesting! ;)
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