The Bold and the Bashful

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In this unit, I listened to an audio in which Dr. Zimbardo shares his knowledge about shyness. He divided shyness into two types: situational or momentary shyness, and chronic and dispositional shyness. He says that the momentary shyness, as his name implies, is only for the moment and can be created due to negative thoughts, physical tension or when you are in awkward situation. However, he compares dispositional shyness to Quasimodo’s hump because it is something that you carry around. Moreover, people tend to make misattributions about shy people who think they are stupid, boring and aloof. Overall, we could all have been shy in any situation; thus, shyness is not the problem itself, the problem is when it isolates us creating handicap in our social relationships.


The bashful are always aggressive at heart. - Charles Horton Cooley (American Sociologist).

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